In this Modern world where we are focused on success around material and financial matters, we sometimes lose something very precious out of our sight. The Art of sex and relationships becomes a part that unwillingly becomes forgotten.

How others see us, wearing a mask for the outside world and hiding feelings, becomes more and more a normal aspect in our lives. But we all have needs and we all want to be loved and seen. So, we tend to have temporarily moments with others, and we try to fill this gap or emptiness, with brief and shallow contacts.

Those are like sand in our hands.

Loneliness is one of the biggest problems in this world.

 

For a while, I was thinking about writing a little handout about this subject. In the past, many books are already written about the sex-life between humans. My intention is to write about things that are still unsaid, sensitive things, perhaps ashamed to admit or hard to discuss with our loved ones openly. Personal, I do not think, we are living a happy live, when certain things stay hidden, and we assume, we cannot share or speak about it.

With this little book, sharing my thoughts, experiences, and even shortcomings, I want to inspire and advise people, because a great sex-life brings good energy and vibes in Our Existence, touching every part of our body and mind. Especially written for young men and women, caught between doubts of staying single and trying to find more fulfilment with someone you (secretly) love.

 

Esther has also written `De hoer van Babylon´, her first autobiographic novel with a twist of unashamed naughtiness.